Difficulties Which Come With Dating A Mexican..
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hi there folks pleasant back to our Channel what was that? two weeks in the past we produced a online video in which Joss was talking about the down sides that include dating a German with dating him, particularly properly.. well these days we’re going to… are you presently ok? We have allergic reactions guy! nowadays we’re going to turn it about and I’m going to let you know each of the difficulties that come with dating a Mexican more accurately, this kind of one here I’m so scared of this movie! I’m going to get offended big time however i know you cherish me and I know you confidentially enjoy all of the aspects of me you feel so? I’m fairly certain each and every them… how dare you guy because like I said last time: I have a lot to say… before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys. I really like Mexicans. I like this exclusively Mexico is certainly a diverse land and so are individuals.. yes that’s extremely real we are available in each and every personality, color, form and shape so that we don’t desire to generalize anything at all.. we’re not declaring that every Mexican does those activities! when we say “problems”, these things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn Spanish and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets is elite singles legit even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true! be ready to meet about 100 or 200 people some day that are section of the family that are only part of the family! If it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico, not even friends I don’t know: the meal you will gain excess weight and that is because of two things: first of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! plus in addition to that it’s tough to refuse due to the fact Mexican meals is very tasty Oh my god I overlook it a great deal… please deliver me Enchiladas Potosinas you should! for me as well remember to another reason why why you’re going to get extra fat due to the meals is since it’s really cheap compared to Germany accurate! In the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes., lets go to the next point now. I’m really also late I’m like Mexican.. you’re one half Mexican that’s basically a stereotype which i loathe I loathe when people say: you’re going to be past due since you’re Mexican but I’m later on a regular basis! even though I try my finest… that’s anything I’ve fought with forever the subsequent point which i needed to get accustomed to a whole lot: you can find frightened although driving a vehicle I don’t wish to push in Mexico and even when your partner, in this case she, is traveling Mexico you, think that: where would be the policies? exactly where would be the collections on a lawn that tell you by which lane you have to go along with the slots dude oh yeah my the lord there is certainly 1 road I must take each time I visit my home it has numerous slots.. I learned them my heart I’m like… when you get with an intersection there is not actually a guideline saying that can go initial Of course! – additionally, there are no indicators you usually say, the main one within the greatest street may go very first but for reasons unknown all of the Mexicans know where you should drive it’s sound judgment bro! it was the most awful in Mexico Town there seemed to be a single extremely busy road therefore we were from a tiny neighborhood and all sorts of the individuals from your small neighborhood were just proceeding such as this about the rest of the vehicles in Mexico City I found my entire life move through my go for true like several occasions along with the drivers in the ubers were actually like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the weather right now? speaking with us in the end is in fact rather remarkable since Mexicans actually learn how to generate in nuts scenarios! okay another position is actually a amusing one but in addition an unfortunate 1.. often for squares of lavatory pieces of paper is actually all that you’ll get exactly where would you practical experience that? really! we had been inside a market place in Mexico Metropolis and I wanted to go to the potty which man in front practically provided me with 4 squares of potty pieces of paper here, do your personal style! and I was like: If that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough, i don’t know! – No and so i informed him: should i have another? I didn’t know it was a problem for you After all in Germany you will find potty paper proper next to the bathroom.. yeah in Mexico way too! yeah alright that doesn’t take place typically.. I have to express this taken place like a second time if you ask me… haha he’s overreacting! Before – in the toilet she would ask you, when I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that: primary or # 2? and if you say one she gives you one square and if you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- .. I don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”, but no! this is only the direction they are they’re such as this… so don’t get your expectations up… They’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine, -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous! and I’m not allowing him venture out! ” which is a little bit excessive guys but… should I remind you of last night? when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at you and me literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore, which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like… -alright you might be like.. so when I started dating you I had been like “incredible a whole new w0rld! ” I actually have a hypothesis even though and I know this can be about to make me seem insane but notice me out I feel like lots of this considering is shaped by telenovelas. Don’t can come for me personally! do you have noticed a Mexican telenovela? -no -the ladies are really extraordinary and they’re so envious and they’re so like “he’s my own she’s never ever gonna consider him from me! ” why is this lady looking at you? this stupid $·%·” footnote: It has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense.., guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly. I have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner if you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes! In Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this,. That is see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing? ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no, I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of disappointment and resentment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect sleepovers and that’s a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend? in Germany folks can remain at the girlfriend’s house or women can say the boyfriend’s home even when they’re less than 18, possibly 16 they may stay in the friends of boyfriend’s residence sinners! and also in Mexico they believe the most detrimental of people, that they are doing a little very terrible stuff that they are unable to do anywhere else just about the most frequent emails I recieve from married couples is young girls which are anxiously inquiring me how did you make Janik know that he are not able to continue to be? or how could i make my mothers and fathers recognize? it’s so difficult. -it’s challenging for us also -sure both sides simply because in the beginning you couldn’t comprehend it that you were like “I don’t buy it” I found myself 22 or 23 yrs old once we started out dating and i also was like “I’m so older and i also cannot be in exactly the same area as her” and my sibling is even more mature and her partner couldn’t keep there I’m an adult. If you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy, -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but! Once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small. once. – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know if it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down below and if you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss!